IN MY WAY OF THINKING,,LOVE IS,,,,,
There are many different meanings we attach to the word love, but the most important aspect of all of them, and probably the only one that applies across all meanings, is the promise not to betray.
True love isn't about passion or lust or attraction or common interests and personalities. It's something altogether different. It's about learning to complement each other, learning to grow with each other. It's about doing love-things, even when you don't feel like it, even when life drives you to insanity, even if you think you've lost love. It's about commitment and perseverance and thinking and feeling and happiness.
Love bears the pain of the world, believes lies, hopes despite sense and reason, endures torture. Good advice by a wife beater to his victim. Quite revealing that the passage never gives a happy side to love, only counsels to endure and keep enduring an infinite sea of pain.
LET ME TELL U ONE STORY ABOUT ,,U ALL REALLY LIKE THIS,,,
Two lovers sat on a park bench, with their bodies touching each other, holding hands in the moonlight.
There was silence between them. So profound was their love for each other, they needed no words to express it. And so they sat in silence, on a park bench, with their bodies touching, holding hands in the moonlight.Finally she spoke. "Do you love me, John?" she asked. "You know I love you, darling," he replied. "I love you more than tongue can tell. You are the light of my life, my sun, moon and stars. You are my everything. Without you I have no reason for being."Again there was silence as the two lovers sat on a park bench, their bodies touching, holding hands in the moonlight. Once more she spoke. "How much do you love me, John?" she asked. He answered: "How much do I love you? Count the stars in the sky. Measure the waters of the oceans with a teaspoon. Number the grains of sand on the sea shore.""Impossible, you say? Yes, and it is just as impossible for me to say how much I love you. My love for you is higher than the heavens, deeper than Hades, and broader than the earth. It has no limits, no bounds. Everything must have an ending except my love for you."There was more of silence as the two lovers sat on a park bench with their bodies touching, holding hands in the moonlight.Once more her voice was heard. "Kiss me, John," she implored. And leaning over, he pressed his lips warmly to hers in fervent osculation.The problem is, that love means something very different for each and every individual on this planet.It's complicated by many of the following:
physical attraction sexual attraction bonding trust needs caregiver syndrome father figure syndrome mother figure syndrome greed jealousy users takers givers abusers stability fear ignorance self-indulgence king syndrome queen syndrome immaturity big-baby syndrome possessive disorder money etc...When people have the need to include love as a requirement for marriage, then the complications really begin.True love in a partnership is simply: commitment; participation; trust; reliability; caring; faithfulness, etc.
WHAT IS YOUR WAY OF LOOKING TOWARDS THE LOVE,,,YOUR SUGGESTION AND THINKING ARE WELCOME,,,,
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